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	<title>Comments on: Why Finding a Man Mentor Is So Essential</title>
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	<description>Men&#039;s Work and Personal Development &#124; Jayson Gaddis, Men&#039;s Coach</description>
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		<title>By: Why Many Men Are Still Boys and What Can Be Done &#124; Radical Personal Development for Smart, Evolving Men</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3378</link>
		<dc:creator>Why Many Men Are Still Boys and What Can Be Done &#124; Radical Personal Development for Smart, Evolving Men</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 00:28:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] if each man out there had a mentor? What if all men were connected to their purpose, their heart and their own inner authority? What [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Carlos Barsy</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3222</link>
		<dc:creator>Carlos Barsy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 04:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Finding emotional support is defenetly a challenge for men in our contemporary society. For centuries we have been reinforced and conditioned to play the strong, independent and self-sufficient game within and without ourselves. The truth is that we can hardly keep up with such fantasy. All human beings need supportive mentors and teachers that will guide them in the many challenges of life. 

In my role as a therapist I often find people holding on their tears out of fear of been &quot;seen&quot; , fear of showing their wounds. Men clients usually feel drawn to the magnetism of the archetype of the wise men that the therapist ( if he is skillfull) has embodied in a genuine way. Then they go around trying to impress him, looking for acceptance and approval. Finally the resistance dissolves and vulnerability flourishes. It is then that I let them know that vulnerability is true strenght and courage. Being humble and honest with ourselves allows us to find what we are trully looking for. If we can&#039;t be honest inside, we&#039;ll just keep on missing the point. I feel that mentoring is such an ancient tradition that we need to honor it in our present times. Great Job Jayson !! , blessings from Puerto Rico . . . 

   NAMASTE</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finding emotional support is defenetly a challenge for men in our contemporary society. For centuries we have been reinforced and conditioned to play the strong, independent and self-sufficient game within and without ourselves. The truth is that we can hardly keep up with such fantasy. All human beings need supportive mentors and teachers that will guide them in the many challenges of life. </p>
<p>In my role as a therapist I often find people holding on their tears out of fear of been &#8220;seen&#8221; , fear of showing their wounds. Men clients usually feel drawn to the magnetism of the archetype of the wise men that the therapist ( if he is skillfull) has embodied in a genuine way. Then they go around trying to impress him, looking for acceptance and approval. Finally the resistance dissolves and vulnerability flourishes. It is then that I let them know that vulnerability is true strenght and courage. Being humble and honest with ourselves allows us to find what we are trully looking for. If we can&#8217;t be honest inside, we&#8217;ll just keep on missing the point. I feel that mentoring is such an ancient tradition that we need to honor it in our present times. Great Job Jayson !! , blessings from Puerto Rico . . . </p>
<p>   NAMASTE</p>
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		<title>By: Coach T.I.A</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3201</link>
		<dc:creator>Coach T.I.A</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 03:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent distinctions! I recently decided to get a mentor and struggle with what a mentor meant to me - wish I&#039;d seen your post sooner :) All&#039;s well though, ended up getting two mentors ~ spiritual and business! Gonna tweet this now. Tia @TiaSparkles</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent distinctions! I recently decided to get a mentor and struggle with what a mentor meant to me &#8211; wish I&#8217;d seen your post sooner <img src='http://revolutionaryman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  All&#8217;s well though, ended up getting two mentors ~ spiritual and business! Gonna tweet this now. Tia @TiaSparkles</p>
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		<title>By: Bill</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3200</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 00:00:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great topic (does anyone ever say it&#039;s a bad topic?)

I&#039;ve got a few mentors, each with different strengths and weaknesses. 
A is an older woman who is great with relationships and general upsets.
J is male, a few  years younger but with vast experience who is great about confidence, women, and diving into the fire.
M is a woman (and my girl friend) excellent for general issues (both outside and inside our relationship)
L is male - very seasoned and successful business mentoring.

I&#039;m also mentoring a few people on relationships and starting small businesses.

The practice of mentoring is incredibly valuable as a way to remind myself of what I know and get insights into myself from the honest communications of my mentees.

B-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great topic (does anyone ever say it&#8217;s a bad topic?)</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got a few mentors, each with different strengths and weaknesses.<br />
A is an older woman who is great with relationships and general upsets.<br />
J is male, a few  years younger but with vast experience who is great about confidence, women, and diving into the fire.<br />
M is a woman (and my girl friend) excellent for general issues (both outside and inside our relationship)<br />
L is male &#8211; very seasoned and successful business mentoring.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also mentoring a few people on relationships and starting small businesses.</p>
<p>The practice of mentoring is incredibly valuable as a way to remind myself of what I know and get insights into myself from the honest communications of my mentees.</p>
<p>B-)</p>
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		<title>By: Heinz</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3197</link>
		<dc:creator>Heinz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 21:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is a good topic and it is great that you are writing about it.

To be honest, I do not have a mentor, but would like to have one in the field of
business and entrepreneurship.
I tried to figure out for my self how to make a business and read several books,
about lasting success, conscious business and how to turn my passion into money.
Still it did not work out yet.
I thought, so many people did it by there own, so I can do it like them. I want to show my dad, my friends, the society that I can do it.

But I am with you and see that for many people, as well me, it is easier to find a
mentor, teacher, sponsor or alike, to learn how to do it.
Even in other areas like learning play guitar or piano we learn faster with somebody
who knows how to play.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is a good topic and it is great that you are writing about it.</p>
<p>To be honest, I do not have a mentor, but would like to have one in the field of<br />
business and entrepreneurship.<br />
I tried to figure out for my self how to make a business and read several books,<br />
about lasting success, conscious business and how to turn my passion into money.<br />
Still it did not work out yet.<br />
I thought, so many people did it by there own, so I can do it like them. I want to show my dad, my friends, the society that I can do it.</p>
<p>But I am with you and see that for many people, as well me, it is easier to find a<br />
mentor, teacher, sponsor or alike, to learn how to do it.<br />
Even in other areas like learning play guitar or piano we learn faster with somebody<br />
who knows how to play.</p>
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		<title>By: The 2 Keys To Finding Your Life's Purpose &#124; Personal Development, Inner Psychology &#38; Spirituality For Motivated Men &#124; RevolutionaryMan.com</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-3085</link>
		<dc:creator>The 2 Keys To Finding Your Life's Purpose &#124; Personal Development, Inner Psychology &#38; Spirituality For Motivated Men &#124; RevolutionaryMan.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 13:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] it&#8217;s true that a good mentor can give us valuable course corrections, and remind us to stay true to ourselves and our path, [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Life Inventory--Be Honest. What Kind Of Man Are You? &#124; Personal Development, Inner Psychology &#38; Spirituality For Motivated Men &#124; RevolutionaryMan.com</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-2670</link>
		<dc:creator>Life Inventory--Be Honest. What Kind Of Man Are You? &#124; Personal Development, Inner Psychology &#38; Spirituality For Motivated Men &#124; RevolutionaryMan.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 20:08:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] get feedback from others such as a mentor, a men&#8217;s group or a close friend. Would it be helpful for you to have an accountability [...]</description>
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		<title>By: How to Discover Your Life Purpose &#124; Primer</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-2659</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Discover Your Life Purpose &#124; Primer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 05:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Hire a coach, therapist or find a mentor to help you dig deep and find your purpose. They don&#8217;t hold the answer, but they can help [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Men Today: An Assesment &#38; An Offering &#124; revolutionaryman.com</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-1862</link>
		<dc:creator>Men Today: An Assesment &#38; An Offering &#124; revolutionaryman.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 15:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Read about mentorship here [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Joshua</title>
		<link>http://revolutionaryman.com/2009/02/find-a-man-mentor/comment-page-1/#comment-49</link>
		<dc:creator>Joshua</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 23:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jason,

Thank you for posting this.

&quot;What I needed was someone to hear me, call BS on me, understand me, then help me move forward and find my own solutions to my own challenges. I needed someone to teach me how to trust myself, how to love myself and how to have more successful relationships.&quot;

  It is exactly this that I need in my life and that&#039;s why I am grateful to have been accepted for the Revolutionary Man Training.  Now off to finish up my committments for the day !  :)  Joshua Gribschaw-Beck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jason,</p>
<p>Thank you for posting this.</p>
<p>&#8220;What I needed was someone to hear me, call BS on me, understand me, then help me move forward and find my own solutions to my own challenges. I needed someone to teach me how to trust myself, how to love myself and how to have more successful relationships.&#8221;</p>
<p>  It is exactly this that I need in my life and that&#8217;s why I am grateful to have been accepted for the Revolutionary Man Training.  Now off to finish up my committments for the day !  <img src='http://revolutionaryman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Joshua Gribschaw-Beck</p>
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