Comments on: Is She “The One?”

By: Conscious Dating And Relationships Teleseminar | Personal Development, Inner Psychology & Spirituality For Motivated Men | RevolutionaryMan.com

Thu, 08 Oct 2009 14:41:33 +0000

[...] of the biggest complaints men have at some point in their life involves relationships and women. Finding “the one” can be a huge pain point for many men. Dating can be an arduous process for many men. Marriage can [...]

By: Is He/She “The One?” - The Hero Principles

Is He/She “The One?” - The Hero Principles — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 16:17:54 +0000

[...] Jayson Gaddis just posted on the topic over at Revolutionary Man. [...]

By: Meghashyam

Meghashyam — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 10:16:40 +0000

“Are you wanting perfect love from an imperfect person, which we all are?”

Sums it all up for me. This line suddenly struck a chord.

We can only give love when we “are” love. How foolish it is to expect to be “loved” all the time unconditionally! Thank you so much for the post.

By: jayson

jayson — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:16:10 +0000

Thank you Verena. It is so important to have your voice here.
J

By: jayson

jayson — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:15:31 +0000

Thanks Michael. Great seeing you here!

By: jayson

jayson — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:15:02 +0000

Revolutionary Youngster,

Thanks for your words. What would happen if you lost this perfect partner? What then? Notice how you are very “other” focused. I wonder where YOU are in the mix?

Email us back in a year or two and let me know the flame is still burning with as much intensity as it is now. Just watch if you try to hold on to the feeling.

Glad you are experiencing such aliveness in your relationship! Stay with it and see what happens.

Thanks!
J

By: jayson

jayson — Sat, 29 Aug 2009 02:11:42 +0000

Yes Klaus I am talkling about taking the “hard” road. But using my words I would call it the raw road.

Thank you for sharing your own personal experience in your marriage. Yes, the flame can be kept alive. Great reminder.

By: Verena Fischer

Verena Fischer — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 08:12:02 +0000

Very nice post! This is certainly advice not only for men, because a lot of women have these hollywood style illusions of how a relationship should be! I especially like point #6 in you What you can do list: If you’re happy and fulfilled on your own then there is a basis for a mature relationship!

By: Michael J Emery

Michael J Emery — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 18:55:22 +0000

Brilliant writing, Jayson! I saw my own fears and projections in the elements of your personal life that you shared. I really believe that you’re tapping into a universal theme in the context of men and relationships. Your steps are challenging and insightful. Keep sharing your wisdom.

[continue to] Be Amazing,

Michael

By: Andrew Parkes

Andrew Parkes — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 18:40:32 +0000

Great post, Jayson – some solid tips and advice on helping men who overinvest into relationships. Insisting that a female validate me was a roller coaster ride when I did this as a single dude.
Take care,
Andrew